“I’m in a small community, so this works for me, but it is a good mental exercise for the larger population…. Try to define ‘specifics’ instead of ‘variables’ especially with human interaction, if it is not clear before you engage (this can be a positive as well as a negative thing) then chaos can (and often will) ensue… Talk about your ‘triggers’ and ‘actions on’ NOW! What do you NEED how will you get it? what do you NOT WANT…? Stark terms but necessary…”
Your points in this entry really are great. How about expanding these thoughts?