Whirl, people or person? I think you’re usually in good standing.
Depends on the subject, and the forum.
All too often when talking about the grey things, people want to go a step too far and say things that may come back to haunt them.
I’ve dug through enough computer files to realize that few things are truly ever gone. And the internet is worse, data is forever.
There’s a place and time to step over the line, be certain its that time.