Good article tweva. My situation at work was complicated by the fact that she was my boss’s wife. Most folks in her line of fire just leave when they can’t take it anymore. As I think about it, she really was only P/A on her calm days. The rest of the time was just plain old aggression. Otherwise she was brilliant, incredibly insightful, took credit for anything that worked, and never the blame for anything that didn’t. The hubby on the other hand was about the best boss you could wish for.