Let me put it too you this way , for the I dont say things like that crowd . The other person might need that . THis extends to the work place , I judge a person for their character , and I have fired people who are too proud to give an apology for wrong doing in the work place . I have given subordenents a choice ” You will go apologize to so and so , or you can roll up your Sh*t right here and now , and get the F*ck off my job site ” . If your not man enough to admit a wrong doing …………..you dont work for me .