There’s a difference between 3-5 days of food and 3-5 days of shelf stable food that doesn’t need cooking.
As far as friends and family goes, there’s a plus when the closest family is 8 hours away. The chances of any making it here is less than slim.
Friends here are almost all more prepped than we are. Our recent move put us back to the beginning. In a lot of ways that’s actually a good thing, starting over with different views and goals.
Right now I’m looking at putting back double the food and water that’s needed for my family, for two reasons, first we would have twice the food/time to plan on and secondly just in case friends and family show up.