Hillbilly – I’m sure your draft horses love your wife and act like babies around her (as much as possible given their size). I have a draft cross, but he is young and not up to full size quite yet – and he is a big baby.
Here is the home version of the cold shoulder equipment thing my brother was given from the hospital after his surgeries – he has this version when it flares up and bothers him (usually after hauling wood stoves and other heavy stuff about). You might want to investigate it – there are other places to buy it – but I didn’t compare any prices. Hope it might help.