THis is an evolving situation for me . I have my family to consider that live in the same city , and now I also have her family to consider ……….my family would take the most work , as some of ” by marriage ” in laws are yankees , that means they dont know the ass end of a gun to the front of it . I have plenty of arms to hand out , but they would be work on my part . My girl’s family is a different story , in Russia , the men are required to serve in the military at age 18 , she has 3 brothers , I can take for granted that they can shoot . In conversations with them , two of the three have their own guns , maybe all three , but two for sure .