As I have said in other threads I live in a family “compound” so we would all go to father in laws house. My biggest concern is if something happened to him. I get along with all my in laws but my bro in law and I don’t always see eye to eye on SHTF. There are times he compensates with bravado and it is hard to tell him anything. Right now we agree to disagree but it is also not a life or death situation at this moment.
I really don’t know how he would handle something happening to his dad. It may shut him down and I would be forced into the lead role or it could at least make him more apt to listen. Or it could make things worse, who knows. I have thought about this many times but have not talked with him about it. Food for thought for sure.